Help!

Hello so i'm 22 year's old almost 23. So i'm here seeking help because i literally tried everything that i can think of at this point i have tried different products every time one of em runs out i've tried oils but never really sticked with it My problems are this: Type of hair:Wavy Problems:It tangles like crazy when it's fully drive and is all over the place it doesn't really tangle on the top part mostly at the neck and bellow Solution:That's why i'm here i have tried everything but nothing seems to do it GOAL: My goal is simple i want my hair to stop tangling or at least 1 hair or a few which is normal i want my hair to be naturally soft+not crazy DRIED up+And not tangle Now here's some information about me/what i have: So i have access to an insane amount of natural oils and can get whatever i am missing so if any of you know a combination of oils together and how much of each or single oil only that will help me with this it would be great Type of hair: Wavy, Yes i know i said it again Porosity:LOW i have tested it after taking a shower and letting air dry normally and taking a strand and putting it in water it didn't sink hell i have even tried to push it down my self it just did not sink ^_^" If you need anymore information let me know One last thing I HAVEN'T Used HEAT on my hair for 2 years if not longer. nor have i dyed it, it has simply naturally grown i have only used shampoo/conditioner and hair cream after my shower. And if you're gonna suggest to do 1 day shampoo 1 day no shampoo i already did that for a long time and it didn't really help. The only time my hair doesn't tangle is if it braid it after taking a shower and applying cream it wouldn't fully dry the next day after i wake up and it doesn't tangle cuz of that but i don't wanna GO OUT with braided hair lol I would appreciate any help in this matter I know it's not possible to CHANGE my hair type to natural straight i have accepted that but i want to solve the frizziness hair/split ends/dry ends/tangles My whole hair starting bellow my head/neck starts to tangle when it's fully dry and it doesn't fully absorb the hair cream cuz it's low porosity unless it's wet i have to rub it and brush it properly so it calms down.